At nine months our life is down to a pretty convenient routine. Parker dropped his third nap around the eight month mark, which was a challenge to understand whether he needed three naps or was happy with two naps spread further apart. It took a few weeks of going back and forth between two-three naps but once we stuck with two, Parker accepted the new schedule. He now has a solid hour nap in the morning and anywhere between 1.5hr-2.5hr nap in the afternoon, this gives me lots of time to get work done in the morning and have a moment to relax during his afternoon nap. Now that he’s awake longer between naps we are able to get out for longer stretches and enjoy the day.
Here’s what life looks like at nine months:
- 6-6:30am – Parker wakes up, Jason brings Parker to the milk machine in bed (Jason’s favorite nickname for me lately) and we play in bed for 20 minutes before Parker’s jumping to get out of bed. Parker plays and Mommy makes coffee and tries to get a little work done or tasks around the house (laundry, dishes) before Parker is whining to be picked up or played with. On Wednesdays we watch the trash guy…Parker gets so fascinated watching 😆. If Parker woke early and is a little fussy, we will do a morning walk before breakfast
- 8:15am – breakfast (scrambled eggs, fruit, yogurt) followed by playtime
- 9:15-9:35am – nap #1. Mommy works
- 10:15-10:30am – wake up from nap, nurse
- 11am – this is when we like to get out of the house. Typical outings lately are: swim lessons (Parker is now in the intermediate parent-and-me class), walk/hike, grocery store/Costco, play dates, run errands, go for a walk by the beach
- 12-12:30pm – lunch (deli meat, wheat toast, fruit, veggies, cheese) followed by playtime or a walk if at home
- 1:45-2pm – nurse and nap #2. Mommy does work, tasks around the house, steams food for Parker, a workout video, but definitely makes sure to rest during this nap!
- 3:30-4pm – Parker wakes, nurses and plays
- 5:15pm – dinner (deli meat, chicken, veggies, cheese)
- 5:45pm – bath
- 6:15pm – daddy gets home…another one of the best times of day for Parker
- 7pm – nurse and goes right the sleep
- Mommy & Daddy have dinner and relax!!
For meals, I no longer feed Parker purées and he eats everything in tiny pieces or I steam hard items like veggies and apples. This makes it a little easier (but messier!) so Parker can feed himself without me having to spoon feed everything. Parker is getting better drinking water from a sippy cup throughout the day.
On the weekends we try not to let the schedule get in the way, but we shoot for two-three hours of nap time a day. Sometimes he will sleep in the stroller or car seat. We go on hikes, run errands and are usually able to go out to early dinners (4:30-5pm) and we bring Parker’s dinner with us to feed him in a high chair. Our usual restaurants are: Javier’s (shocker), Yard House, Red O, BJs, or Carmelita’s. He’s usually pretty good at dinner and we’re able to have a good time!
On Thursdays we go to grandma and grandpas with Nicki and Lily, and every other Thursday Parker has an appointment to have his helmet adjusted. He has been in the helmet for 11 weeks now and we were told he could be done within the next couple of weeks (hopefully we won’t need a second helmet)!
We recently got a “big boy” convertible car seat because he was outgrowing the infant car seat and we needed to give it back to Nicki for Thomas’s arrival coming up!
Parker has been teething for the past month and he currently has four teeth on top and four on bottom. Now we have a little teething break before the molars come in.
Parker is cruising all over the house and loves his walker…he may be walking soon!
There were three or four nights right at nine months where Parker would wake and cry for a minute or two in the middle of the night, something he hadn’t done in many months. I think this was the nine month sleep regression I’ve read about, but he wasn’t awake for longer than a minute or so and would go right back to sleep. It was no problem!
Life is great and we can’t believe Parker is nine months old!